@jhughes Hey, brother. I'm in the same spot except I have taken the route you suggested and that many will take issue with. I absolutely hated -22 and never run it. I also do not like to slow the boat down because my ski reacts so differently. This issue is probably worse for me than most because I'm too big for my ski, but they don't make skis for me - 6'5, 245lbs. Look at the sizing for skis and everything is in 20lb increments til you hit the biggest ski, then it says 190+. Ha. Anyway, I totally feel your pain, but take heart. I have run -28 once and am solidly knocking on the door for consistent solid runs. -15 and -22 don't discourage pulling after the second wake. In fact, typical skiers at that length don't have the technique yet to keep from pulling until they're nearly to the buoy line. At -28, you finally get the swing from the boat to throw you out there and pulling too long has disastrous consequences. Here's what I did (following coaching from a -35 skier - we call it freeskiing in the course) : turn 20 ft in front of the gate and then try to turn 20 ft in front of every ball. At first you'll lose time and be at the balls by the time you hit 4 ball. Just keep skiing it. Doing this removes the chance of hitting the ball and getting hurt and also teaches you to keep your head up and look down the buoy line to verify you have achieved proper width. Once you can stay in front all the way through, you have to move on to the harder part. This agrees with advice above. Once I started actually going through the gates and going around 1, it highlighted that my pullout was too narrow and I was pulling too hard/long through the gate. That generated a pull into 1 ball that was narrow and with a feeling of too much speed. I'm just getting that under control now. One other thing that has helped is that I like to occasionally take a couple of passes (and even a little freeski time) at -35. That will really teach you to not pull beyond the second wake!! Enjoy. And thanks for all of the time/effort on fifteenoff.com. I loved that site.
Bill
p.s. A few times I have been persuaded to ski -22 and ran it about 40% of the time. It is nothing like -28. It feels almost identical to -15 to me.